In Her Own Words
About her
Because after a long life I still want to seize the day. Every day is a gift …love and laughter , sunrise , sunset , moonlight, candlelight ,starry skies.
I worked in the arts in eduction ,drama and theatre studies, through promotion I got to over see multicultural integration projects in schools and in a London borough. Always involved in pastoral and community work …trying to ‘level the playing field ‘ for all young people .
When a child of mine became sick I retrained in organic agriculture and horticulture, restored and ran a small holding with courses in art, cookery and garden design .
Also worked with nature groups to create a wildlife habitat on the entire property.
I now live alone by the sea. I love being my rag bag family of natural and adopted kids ,although they don’t live here.
I practise bellydance , Taichi, salsa ,ballet .I sometimes swim ,lift light weights and garden.
I am into strolling not hiking .
I write poetry , perform it and run workshops for other poets.
I have an ethnically mixed background which gives me the privilege of having no prejudices except against those who disseminate hate. So no right of centrists.
I read ,write , dance , cook ,chill in nature or just dream.
I also love to be with friends , eat, talk and sometimes party/dance..I love theatre, jazz , classical and opera and soul funk also ballet and galleries.
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I have driven the length of France and Spain finding hidden villages , staying the night and moving on or remaining for a while.
Doing something like that with someone special would be lovely…..
..I laugh a lot… because I always seem to end up in bizarre situations… …because you have to…
Distance is just logistics…that’s why we are on line ..isn’t it ?
I do not do infidelity .. mine or anyone else’s… no judgement but by now I know what suits me.
If this interests you get in touch ..if not ..go safely.
My photos are all from 2025/26 .Not good but hope to improve soon.
About her ideal match
“ I just haven’t found you yet..”
…Some of these traits would be great …all ….fantasy ! ? !
I want a flaneur to stroll through life with me…
.A man who laughs a lot.
A man with no prejudices. No right of centre types.
A man who loves the arts, nature and people.
A man who is sensitive empathetic to others.
A man who would dance in the kitchen , but preferably …anywhere…
A man who can enjoy poetry ,candle light and fire light.
OK all a bit schmaltzy….but a girls gotta dream….
A man who would have his own interests and be happy for me to have mine but has enough in common to make us compatible. Who would be happy to live separately but spend lots of time together….. then who knows?
Who likes to sit by a log fire ,chat about the day or just hold each other and just be.
A man who loves good food ,wine and romantic meals.
A man who reads and loves art, theatre ,and music.
A man who can laugh even when life throws a spanner in the works.
Who would swim with me in warm seas and stroll through winding streets with red tiled roofs….
A heart ,mind ,body and soul man….well we all have to dream…(sound of flying pigs….)
A man believes in fidelity and truthfulness , so if separated I would need explanations.
Hopefully starting with friendship and going with the flow.
No swinging from chandeliers any more but passion and desire would be lovely.
A sense of humour and twinkle in the eye would be a good start….
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Swansea, Swansea, Wales | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
69 - 78 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Other; Agriculture; Advertising / PR; Consultancy / Design | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Dance; Rugby; Snorkeling; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Cheesy FM Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Very |